THE YOM KIPPUR PEDICURE
Daphne Merkin
“How can it be, you might ask, that such a travesty came to
pass? How it is, I mean, that a woman like me, born and bred of preening
Orthodox German-Jewish stock, came one evening last fall to usher
in Yom Kippur, the Holiest of Holy Days, in the most faithless way
imaginable: by having a manicure and pedicure at Iris Nails on the
Upper East Side?
You might ask, that is, if this were the beginning of an old-fashioned
story by S.Y. Agnon, say, or Sholom Aleichem, one that had never
been exposed to those newfangled and profane literary influences
that do away with all meaning, much less a divine purpose. The
kind of story that always includes a busybody or two—professional
meddlers in the detritus of other people’s lives, whose ordained
narrative purpose is to stand around the town square, alive with
the sound of peddlers hawking their wares and chickens squawking,
the better to discuss the latest shanda, a piece of news that would
set your mother’s ears on fire. Such sorrows shouldn’t
happen to a dog – they would undoubtedly cluck among themselves,
if they happened to get wind of the tale I am about to recount – much
less to a family of noble standing such as hers. To fall from such
heights to such depths, all in a moment’s undoing! Better you
should excuse yourself than read on.
My own sordid little history, however, is set in a traffic-ridden
twenty-first century city where anonymity is assured, rather
than in a tiny, horse-drawn nineteenth century shtetl where village
gossips hold sway. No one would chance to know of my brazen flouting
of basic
religious etiquette except for the fact that I feel compelled
to
reveal it now. Think of it as a form of belated atonement, disguised
as a shameless confessional performance. S’lach loh-nu, m’chal
loh-nu, kahper loh-nu. Forgive us, pardon us, grant us atonement…”
Daphne Merkin is
the author of Enchantment (Harcourt, 1986), which won
the Edward Lewis Wallant award in 1986 for the best
new work of fiction based on a Jewish theme, and Dreaming of
Hitler: Passions & Provocations (Crown, 1997), a collection
of essays that includes the wide-ranging writing she has done for
The New Yorker, The New York Times Book Review,
and various other publications. Ms. Merkin lives in New York with
her daughter Zoë.